Fortune #7.

Thanks for the reminder Jen.

This type of advice always makes me think of the cover headlines in magazines like Cosmopolitan. You know, eye-grabbing taglines for the sorts of articles that purport to tell you "what men really want in bed". Articles recommending spontaneously introducing certain acts and/or equipment and/or other people. Specifically the types of things that most of the men I've personally known would be extremely unhappy about being surprised with. Good intentions or not.

Sometimes a little conversation beforehand is a good thing.